Fear of leaving job, Eliminating Debt

At 03:39 PM 11/14/2006, you wrote:

Hi Bob,
 

1. Despite working with the Law of Attraction for a year, I am having trouble raising my predominant vibration.  I know you will understand when I say that I am in a job (insurance claims) that feels completely out of alignment.  Because of other training (University of Santa Monica), I have been working on acceptance of where I am, personal responsibility, owning my own  projections and self-forgiveness for over three years.  I have also worked with the Sedona Method and EFT to reach a level of acceptance.  Although I’ve made some progress I feel as if my resistance to my current situation is also acting as a barrier to what I want.  I’ve set intentions, done segment intending and all other sorts of things.  Leaving now does not feel like an option because I am also beset by fear regarding my finances.  I understanding that leaving in the midst of fear will only bring me more  to be fearful of.  Do you have any suggestions on how I can breakthrough what seems to be a wall of resistance?

You mentioned doing EFT for self-acceptance issues, but how much have you done for the fear of leaving? If your focus is on your fear, then you won't be freed up creatively to create NEW income options for yourself. It seems you've still got some level of attachment to a JOB being your primary source of income.

1. In working with my intentions, I have tried setting monetary goals.  These don’t seem to work that well for me and I understand the you don’t recommend them.  Right now I have realized that the most important thing for is to get out of debt.  Working towards abundance seems to have been too much of a leap for me.  I understand that affirmations and intentions need to be framed in the positive.  Right now I am working with the affirmation – “I am debt-free.”  Do you think that phrasing will bring more debt because of the use of the word?  Right now it’s the best I can come up with because working with “I have a positive net worth” has not worked well for me. 

Yes, if your focus is on becoming debt-free, then you still have your focus on debt. Bob Proctor has great advice in The Secret. Set up SOME kind of automated debt-reduction plan, and FORGET about it, and focus on feeling abundant. There IS no other way around it. It worked for me, and I started with 60k in debt. I spent a lot of time focusing on becoming debt-free. Didn't work. What worked was allowing myself to creatively come up with new streams of revenue which built over time to a point where I could write checks that would pay off the debt - but my focus was on the prosperity being created, not the debt that was being eliminated.

 
Basically I have all of these tools which I know work – I understand quite a bit about the Law of Attraction.  But I still find myself feeling in the crapper.  I also know that feeling that way is not helping – that accepting my situation and finding a way to be happy now is the best option.  But I still feel lost. 

I think there are probably several areas that you could be utilizing EFT that you aren't thinking about. Have you been through the 30-day Clearing process in the members area?

Bob

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